Coming out Gay

Gay Definition: A person who identifies as homosexual

Coming out as Gay can be attached to anyone of any gender. But most commonly used towards the male gay community, being gay is simply stating that you’re not straight. The term “gay” is often used to describe something negative e.g. “That’s so gay” which has resulted in many LGBTQ+ members believe being gay is a negative.

Identifying as gay, is valid and as important as any other sexuality label. Within out Gay Coming Out Stories, you will read stories of LGBTQ+ members facing a range of obstacle to become themselves.

Apostrophe’s Coming Out Story

I never felt ‘normal’ when I was a little boy. Instead of playing with toy cars, I would give makeovers to my sister’s Barbies. I was obsessed with fashion and begged my mother to let me buy a sewing machine, but instead, she bought me 'Top Gun' on VHS...

Aldrin Suson’s Coming Out Story

Coming out at a very young age was not ideal for me as my family is Catholic, my parents and family are erratic attendees at Sunday Mass and as a result, I became an altar boy. Being an altar boy made me happy, and I thought I found my purpose in...

Brian Bloomfield’s Coming Out Story

Before I came out, when I was in college, I always had those curiosities. Those urges. I never acted on them because I thought it was a phase that would eventually pass. One day those urges got the best of me and I realised that this was who I was and...

Daniel Bailey’s Coming Out Story

My name is Daniel Bailey. I'm a 'normal' 15-year-old boy with ambitions, hopes and dreams. Or at least that's what society portrays me as. I use the word 'normal' carefully and place it into quotations because how are we meant to define 'normal'? However, I have...

Joshua Moynihan’s Coming Out Story

I finally came out as gay in February 2017 (which coincidentally was LGBT+ History Month and the 50th anniversary of the Sexual Offences Act 1967 which decriminalised male homosexuality - unbeknownst to me!). My mother and I were watching television (presumably...

Paul Butler’s Coming Out Story

At a young age, I learned that there are people who dislike those who are different. Because of that, I have spent the majority of my life trying to change who I am. Growing up, I inherently accepted the fact that I was oftentimes the target of derogatory jargon. ...