Our sexuality is often a journey of self-discovery to understand the emotions we’re experiencing. Having these discussions can open a can of worms to try to find a label that suits us perfectly. We’ve created a sexuality quiz that can help start your journey in understanding your sexuality and answer the question… what is my sexuality?
Sexuality Quiz – LGBTQ+ Edition
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Sexuality is something I’ve had to spend years trying to understand. It’s very personal & it’s important to give yourself the space and room for growth.
I always thought that I was Pansexual. I then took this quiz and read through the A – Z list, and I got Demisexual. Is it possible to be a Demi-Pansexual?
Of course, if this is how you feel & can relate to both demisexuality and pansexuality – Then it’s 100% valid!
Is being asexual something you come out abt or is it just normal?
yes you can come out about whatever you feel is necessary.
I do not think they know what they are talking about
I am demi sexual/asesexual I am too young for love but I’m straight
Being asexual is completely normal❤️
You do come out as asexual!
I’m bisexual.. I can feel attraction without looking at the gender 🙁 please add a disclaimer, pansexual is a label under the bi umbrella
No. It is not. I hate it when people say that Pan is just bi. It’s not. Bi is being attracted to two or more genders. Pan is being attracted to all genders. I, personally, am Ace-Demi-Panro. An Ace-Demi-Panro that hates more than almost anything when people say that. Pan👏 and👏 Bi👏 are👏 not👏 the👏 same👏 thing!👏
Bisexual and pansexual are very different. Pan means all and bi means 2 so pan is when you like everyone and bi is when you like only 2 genders
i just want to point out that yes u can be attracted to more than two genders and be bi and the same goes for pan its just what u feel comfortable labelling yourself but bi and pan are still veryyyy different
Exactly,maybe u r queer
Ummm, I can’t speak for any bi people but I’m pan and I tried to identify as bisexual for a year and it’s actually quite different. Bi is attraction to your gender and others, pan is attraction regardless of or blind to gender. Yeah, maybe bi and pan people will end up liking the same genders but pan people won’t see the gender. It hurts when you say pan is just a label under the bi umbrella because that makes our sexuality seem less valid.
To Dyl, Queer isn’t a certain sexuality, it’s just a label used for those who aren’t heterosexual. So if they’re not heterosexual and they’re comfortable being called queer, they would be queer. Also I would like to add, i’m not trying to offend anyone with my comment and I wouldn’t like to create and internet fight. I’m simply creating a statement. Best wishes.
I am bi too. And just to say to everyone who’s taken this quiz if you haven’t told your family or friends yet, it’s ok. We all need time to tell are true sexuality to people.
No it’s different Bc pansexul is men woman Demi boys Demi girls trans
I’m Aromantic and Asexual, so I completely know what you mean! I’ve only come out to my friends so far, but you can come out to people!
I hate the fact that some people out there act like asexuals and pansexuals do not exist. Like come on just because you do not understand it doesn’t mean we don’t exist!
I just HATE IT when people say that no and pan are the same thing! THEY ARE NOT AND NEVER WILL BE!A lot of my friends are no and pan, and a LOT of people ask what’s the difference? THERE IS A LOT OF DIFFERENCES!!!!
yes you should totally come out if you are fully comforable with coming out as a asexual.
i thik its somthing that not to come out about like what are u gonne say hey i don’t like sex
You just say I’m demi or ace
Dear Lana, for some people being asexual is normal but if you have to confess to your parents you should watch out some will support you but some won’t Signed, Charlie
It’s normal but come out if you feel safe to do so <3
I am asexual and I think coming out is important especially if someone has their eye on you. Sometimes not having sex in a relationship is a dealbreaker and it doesn’t feel good to be turned down because of it. People should know you are asexual and be okay with that before they start dating you/crushing on you.
Hi I am lesbian
Hi! I’m pan i think? I thought I was bi but now idk lol
It’s connected mostly to your sex life so you do not need to come out unless you want to. I suggest coming out to a partner, though. If you want one, that is.
hi! my experience- i wouldnt “come out” rather bring it up if it got mentioned. just like pronouns 🙂
Umm…Hi so it said the I’m pansexual and I think I am but I also think I’m Demi-Pansexual because I feel like I need a emotional relationship! But I think that you should find out for yourself and not let the internet decide lol! But that is I’ll think about all of this!
Dear Lana, All sexual attractions and romantic attractions are normal and keep in mind you do NOT HAVE to come out. As kids we are often told to only do it when it’s safe and while yes this is true, you don’t have to come out at all. You don’t have to take time out of your day to confront your family with your romantic/sexual attraction and I feel like it is disgusting that we are made to feel like that as soon as we know our sexual/romantic orientation we have to come out. You don’t. Only do it if you 100% want you. And don’t let anyone tell you that you have to come out for you to be valid because that is complete BS. But anyway have a lovely day:)
Being asexual just means you don’t/won’t like anyone in any way
I am sexually attracted to all genders but I feel that I want to have a relationship more. Does anyone know what this is called?
That would be called PanSexual. PanSexual is when you’re attracted to every gender. Hope this helped!💖
So at this point I realized I was a lesbian came out as that, 6 months later notices I don’t feel sexual attraction starts to question if I am also ace, 2 weeks after that started I realized I rarely feel romantic attraction. So now I am =It’s to confusing to explain to you
it did help thank you
You might be Omnisexual, which is attraction to all genders but gender is important to you so you could have a preference.
I’m confused what’s the difference between omni and bi:/
I am omnisexual and it basically means you love all genders but gender takes more of an affect on who you love so like with me i prefer women but whe it comes down to it it doesnt quite matter bisexuality is you are attracted to 2 or more genders that could be a enby and men an enby and women a woman and men a gender-fluid person but you have two main genders (or more)
If you lean towed one gender over others and see gender that would be Omni but if you are gender blind and have no preference thats pan
That might be polyamorous (wanting to have relationships w multiple ppl)
I have been confused about my sexuality for long time, but i moved on with my life and now i am sigle mother of 2 beautiful children but i was still confused and it didn’t feel right, so i took the quiz and it say that i am pansexual, but then i read A-Z list and i feel like i am Pansexual but also Demisexual.
You can be both
hi im confused about my sexuality, ive thought i was lesbian for most my life but now im like basically inlove with a gender fluid person but there sex is a girl , like i woudint ever date a guy or a non binary pr gender fluid person with the sex of a dude and sometimes im not sexually attracted to a female until i get to know them more but im still attracted to them just not sexually most of the time but then sometimes i just see a male fictional charecter and im like hot but i never think about fucking them or dating them im just like hot you know, im so confused can u pls help
Hey Emma! You might be Demisexual or Asexual. Demisexual is when you only experience sexual attraction for someone after making a strong connection with that specific person. A demisexual identity is a useful indicator for where a person might fall on the asexual spectrum.
You could still be a lesbian you said theyre sex is a girl but their gender fluid if thy still fit the kind of woman stature that may be why becuase in your eyes they may still be kind of a woman to you this just means you can like woman and nonbinary/genderfluid people if they fit the woman characteristics if you disagree my apologies and i hope you figure it out
Okay So I Know Im Ace I Dont Like Any Of The Sex Jazz And Im Pretty Sure Im Demi But As To What Gender I Would Date I Dont Know I think I Might Be Pan But If I Am I Would Prefer to Have Whoever Without Long hair Is it that Possible Or Am I Not pan??
So I’m a woman who is sexually attracted to guys, but this test says I’m gay or queer. Can someone explain how the test got it so wrong please?
Same here! I’m confused
If you said you were attracted to femininity that might have been why.
I was pretty sure I was a lesbian and the quiz said so 2!
I think i got Asexual because im just to young to be attracted sexually to anyone
Can somebody tell me the difference between bisexuality and omnisexuality to finally pick one please 😀
Same😭
Omnisexual/romantic means to love all genders. Yes, there is a difference in loving all and being genderblind. Omnisexuals/romantics take gender into account, and some have preferences. Yes, they can love all, but they tend to lean more to one side.
A bisexual/biromantic person is attracted to both female and male genders and has become an umbrella term to both pan and omni in recent years, with the appending of “or to more than one sex or gender” onto its official definition. Being attracted to two (2) genders. Usually, but definitely not always, male and female.
I hope this helps.<3 <3 💜💖💝💟
I like how accurate this is because I got pansexual witch yes I am but I’m still confused on my gender
Can pan have a gender bias? Or does that make you omni?
Most pan people don’t have preferences between gender but pan people can have preferences in terms of how people look. Like femininity over masculinity; being more attracted to a male who looks feminine than a masculine-looking female. If you do have a preference in actual gender then that is more omni than pan but you can identify with whichever makes you more comfortable.
i have allways thot that i was bi and poly but then i tuck this qiuz and it ses im pan i dont understand i am aterakted to all genders so what am i
can i be both Bi and pan?
Yes, you can be attracted to people, but not until you know them as a friend. Or you could be somewhere along those lines, everyone’s different. Like, I (think) I am grey-polysexual.
Yes 🙂
Of course it is! Demi just means you have don’t have sexual longings towards EVERYONE. I’m a Demi lesbian, it’s a completely normal thing
I am Demi and Ase is that possible?
Yea
Yes. Demisexual explains who you are romantically attracted to. It basically means that you don’t catch feelings until you know the person.
And you exist and feel how you do so of course it’s possible. You don’t need permission or validation to be legitimate or valid. You and your sexuality will always be valid no matter what.
I am a Biromantic Demisexual
What is called to be a demisexual but not feel any sexual attraction even with an emotional connection?
If you don’t feel ANY sexual attraction, then that’s asexual. If you need to know someone to be attracted to them romantically, then that’s demiromantic.
I love this. I am demi-pansexual, and I’ve been so confused about how to identify myself.
Nice! I’m a Biromantic Heterosexual
Yup. Being demisexual is just about when you might be attracted to someone sexually but not who you might be attracted to. So if you like all kinds of people no matter what they’re gender is, then you would identify as demisexual panromantic, because you only feel sexual attraction if you have an emotional bond (demisexual) and you feel romantically attracted to everyone (panromantic).
You can be a Panromantic Demisexual
Can I be omniromantic demisexual? Like is there a thing omniromantic?
Yes you can be Demisexual and still like well genders you just like to know/have a friendship with the person first
Yes, there just wouldn’t be a point for that specific mash up because it’s restating what the romantic attraction is. But you should do whatever makes you feel more validated in the end. Because that is what is most important, find the right things to make us feel valid and equal with each other.
Yes i got lesbian !!!
yes it is possible to be demi-pan. Im demi-bi
Yes i also am a demi pan
Yes! From what I know demisexual is mainly used as an add on (if that makes sense) so if you originally identified as pan and thought, hm, I may be demisexual. Than it would most likely be pan-Demi. Sorry if that’s confusing. Have a Great day!
Yes, demi means you have to know that person a bit better before you want to “get to know them”, and pansexual means you are attracted to basically everyone, regardless of gender. So when you are demi-pan, that just means when you fall in love with anyone you want to get to really know them 🙂
Hope this helped
Pan romantic ❤️
I totally agree on this. Never had any sexual attraction with anyone outside a relationship. And I only discovered I could really possibly be sexually attracted to a same sex just a year ago when I started a relatiinshio with my girlfriend. It’s just that we can’t come out due to some reasons 🙁
Yes it is possible to be demi-pansexuell
You can be demisexual but panromantic.
Yes, it is. I am also Demisexual and Pansexual. Demisexual just means you have to get to know the person before you like start dating.
yes it I myself an
Yes 🙂
It is VERY possible. You can be demisexual and be heterosexual, bi, gay, pan, etc. Any sexual orientation and still be demisexual/ace spectrum.
So wait, If I like men but have never felt sexual attraction, just platonic and romantic, does that mean I’m a hetero ace?? I’m kind of confused about all this
(the quiz sais ace btw and my friend who is ace agrees)
UwU i am pansexual and i think that is possible be a demi-pansexual
Im pretty sure you can be if that your sexuality
I always thought I was asexual- bisexual and I got pansexual, is it possible to be all those three?
No I dont think you can be pansexual and bisexual at the same time but you can be pan and asexual
yeah i am
Hey so I fantasize about yk doing the deed with women on a daily basis and I think men are pretty to look at but not to yk with….so what does this mean?????
I got demisexual but I’m not sure this is right for me. I think I am bisexuals. I also wondered that the definition said demisexuals are sexually attracted to people they have an emotional connection to can that be friends and Can I be romantically attracted to others I dont have emotional connections to I think I might be Demi biromantic but I’m still not sure if I could get some advice/ answers to my questions that would be great sorry for the long comment!
You can be both bisexual and demi-sexual.
I feel like pan but in my head is just omnisexual
The quiz said pan
And somehow… yes
But isn’t it Normal or care about the personality too?
I mean I’d like a boy or girlfriend who has a good character and so on but also looks good…
And btw I am just questioning myself right now.
I want to fall in love with the same gender cause I only fell in love with boys yet
So I want to experience it
I think that would help me better than just imagine things
So.. again
The difference between Omni and pan is that pan people don’t notice gender (?) and omnis do ?
Ahh it’s not easy
Omnis can have preferences right? Can they have or does every omnisexual person has a preference?
And pans doesn’t?
First I had girls as a preference but now…
I can’t find any preference anymore
All I can think about are girls (but not in a relationship.. it’s super nice but it feels strange to think about it.. I’d like to be in a relationship with a girl but it feels strange to think about it) and boys in skirts (or any other gender in skirts)
And… how do I know that I like all genders when I don’t know all genders?
It has no sense to declare yourself ‘Demi-Pansexual’ it’s redundant. Both can be bisexuality, or in other words, loving whoever you want. So the best word would be ‘Bisexual’, but call yourself whatever you want.
i thought i was pansexual to but turns out i’m bisexual but my parents are homosexual people so they won’t be able to support me
I got pansexual even though i used to identify as bi. Did some research and figured out i’m omni!
Yes you can be demi sexual but pan romantic
Yes it its called Demi-romantic Its okay to be one.
Yes. I’m Demi-bi
OMG same
Always
I thought I was bi but now I’m apparently pan
i also thought i would be pansexual but i got demisexual so yeah i think it could be possible to be demi-pansexual
Same 🙂
At first I tjought I might be lesbain but then it saif that and it was pretty Accurate!
It’s possible to be Demi, pan-Demi and Demi-pan 🙂
You can be a demisexual panromantic!
Yes it’s called panoramic demisexual
I got Gay/Queer, I don’t identify with queer though I’m definitely Gau!
It says demisexual but I’m an aromantic sex repulsed asexual idk anymore but good quiz!
It is always possible tho the text is just guessing by what you say And you should always be true to who you think you are
I got the exact same thing too. I am a little confused now…
Im bisexual
Yes it is💖
of course it simply means you lovve all genders but you need to know anyone before you can have romantic/sexual attraction. Love you your valid
You can be demisexual and panromantic, I’m asexual and panromantic
Yes, yes it is possible. Being a Demisexual means you only feel sexual and romantic attraction after forming a strong emotional bond with a person. It doesn’t change who you’re attracted to. Demisexual can often be combined with other sexualities, such as pan and bi.
You are probably demisexual panromantic, that it what I am it basically means you don’t feel sexual attraction unless you have an emotional bond but your willing to be in a relationship with anyone.
I’m wondering the same thing because I thought I was pan but the quiz gave me demisexual and I don’t think it identifies my whole. Did you find the answer to this yet??
same
I’m the same I’m pan but also demi romance is different from sexual attraction
Yea it is, I actually got the same as you, I was pan and found out I’m Demi to, pans your preference, and Demi’s your attraction
im asexual but it says demi soo does that make me pan cus i think im pan
Thats what I am <3
You could be demisexual and panromantic!
Apparently I’m actually a female. I got lesbian XD.
Most likely a demisexual male though.
Yes🤩 u can be more than one sexuality btw.
I took the quiz and am Pansexual except IM getting Demi vibes too and gender fluid too 👍👍⭐️⭐️
I’m both also ! 😀
Hi I am ten years old and I am bi I feel scared to tell my family what to do??
Im ten yeara old to and idk how to tell my family That im Asexual
Kinda its called demisexual pan-romantic
same here but me it’s actually the other way around, I always thought I was demisexual but the quiz says I’m pansexual and now I’m starting to question if I’m Pan-Demisexual
I have a question of my own though, how do I come out when my family is heterophobic and against the LBGQT+ community because they believe that God doesn’t accept this and didn’t create it
i thought im bi but it looks like im pan
ya, many demisexuals are pans….. it is the beauty of being friendship bound to love bound
I got the exact same thing!
im pan too and i got demi too and yes its possible 🙂 high 5 friend
me. i always thought i was pan but got demi and now confused because i actually have never liked anyone at first sight not until i know them so maybe i am demi??
im pretty sure i got demi too
Yes, it is! It’s also possible that you might be Demisexual Panromantic!
Hello umm so I will like a gender one day like I’ll like a female and no other gender but it’s always changing but I also feel like a don’t really like sex it grosses me out and I don’t really know what I am does anyone know?
Yes! Because I am 🙂
I go pansexual, this is what I normally define as. But recently I feel that I am more attracted to women over any other gender, would this still make me pan or something else.
The best way to look at sexuality is that it doesn’t have to be a 50/50 split, you can be more attracted to women and still be pansexual 🙂
Actually, when you are pan you dont have prefrence. Although there is a sexuality called omnisexual (witch i identify as). When you are omnisexual you can have prefrence and gender plays slight roles in relationships. Unlike when your pansexual and you only care for peoples personality.
Same but we would idenify as Pansexual homo romantic if you are a girl and if not then a Pansexual hetro romantic
Ive always thought of myself as demisexual- but i got bisexual. Ive only ever been attracted to one guy really, and its most been girls though. Would this be considered biromantic demisexual???
Yes, if that’s the label you feel most comfortable in! This quiz is only to help discuss sexuality, if you read our a-z sexuality list it may help a little more!
I’ve always questioning am I Bisexual, Lesbian or Pansexual and I got Pansexual and I’m not still not sure…
I knew I was never fully straight, so I thought I was bi, but then I discovered pan, and I thought I was for sure pan, but now I recently found out that I’m a Demi-Omni. Either way, your sexuality can change over time, and you can discover so much more, so don’t feel the need to always have to label your sexuality❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Is it possible to be attracted to women sexually and men romantically? So like lesbian hetero romantic ?
I think you can be bisexual if you like both ( men and women)
My heart stopped when I saw this. Im like that. I often playback the sexual situations I’ve been in with women and I want to do it again but at the same time when I think of myself in a relationship it’s usually with men. My test came out as demisexual and now I’m confused.
thats called being a biromantic lesbian! (if you are a girl). I dont know about what it’s called if your a man though…
I KNEW I WAS DEMISEXUAL!!
I’m so glad you got the correct answer 🙂
Im Aromantic Pansexual
Ah. Yes. I am Demi-Pan… I knew it- WOO
Y’all got it right😎
I am 100% lesbian
Hey! I got bisexual, but I don’t think I’m sexually attracted to both genders, is there a name for that? Also, I came out to my mom and she said, “Well, I’ve liked this girl when I was your age but I wasn’t attracted to her. I just thought she was pretty, and you’ve been through a lot of phases in your life.” and she says, “Don’t tell anyone until you are 18. You’ll probably just grow out of it, lots of people go through this around your age.” Is what she’s saying right? What should I do?
Hey!
It’s okay to not feel 50/50 attraction to both sexualities, and bisexuality isn’t just limited to male and female identities. Also, your mom is most likely trying to protect you and doesn’t realise how damaging her words may be. It’s a big misconception that we “grow out” of these so called phases, but the reality is we don’t. You know in your heart that what you’re feeling is very real and it’s important to be open to the possibilities of being LGBTQ.
My best advice is to explore your sexuality, nothing is ever simple and sexuality in itself is very complex. You’re not in a phase and likely hood you won’t grow out of it, but if in 5 years time you feel like your sexuality has changed that’s okay. Maybe discuss with your mom or friends about sexuality and what it means to you – If you want to drop us an email on uniteuk1@gmail.com – We can always try help you out further.
Charl x
Hey so would it be ok to ask if being pansexual but also polyamorous is it ok to be more that one? Coming out is hard I have yet to do it I am kinda scared and it is giving me anxiety. I don’t know what to do or who I would tell or talk about this to I feel like if I tell someone they are going to judge me and not like me anymore. I also don’t know how to show that I am a part of the LGBTQ+ community without being really extra about it.
Oh yeah! Polyamorous is when you can be in a relationship with multiple people and feel attracted to all of them at the same time (so its not really a sexuality). And pan is just your sexuality (i assume you already know the definition). So yeah you can always be pansexual and polyamorous! In fact, i myself am polyamorous but im not pan im omnisexual.
i’m pans
I did the quiz three times and I got three different things/ pan, gay, and bi. What does this mean.
Well, gay means you are attracted to the same-sex, and bi means you are attracted to 2 sexes. These both fall under the pan umbrella, but you don’t need to label anything! Just be happy and love who you love.
i got pans too
I git demisexual but I know I’m asexual, I had trouble answering the questions because the first one asks which gender I’m attracted to and there was no option that said none and the rest of the questions were the same, there was no none option to most of them
Demisexual is when someone is sexually attracted to somebody after making a strong emotional connection with someone and Asexual is having little to no sexual attraction to someone. It’s easy to mix the two up, but it states in dictionary.com that ‘A demisexual identity is a useful indicator for where a person might fall on the asexual spectrum.’ So its ok to mess those two up! I always thought I was asexual but turns out I was really demisexual.
I got Pansexual, I thought I was bi. but I’m only 13 and I don’t know what to do now.
Pansexual is under the umbrella term of bisexuality. Pansexuality typically differs from bisexuality as pansexuals refer to themselves as ‘gender blind’ and don’t see gender when being attracted to someone. Many people who identify as bisexual DO see gender, and might prefer one over another. Further more, the suffix pan means all, as in all genders, and bi means two (or more.) Some also use pansexual as a way to be more inclusive of gender non-binary people, (which is great!) but bisexuality is not transphobic. Finally, this is an online quiz and though it can help you realize your sexuality, in the end you know your self better than a computer, so identify with whatever speaks to you.
I came out as lesbian a year ago and I took the test and I knew it wld come out as lesbian and it did 😂🥺
I’m 13 and I got lesbian. I come from a Christian homophobic family and now I am a little scared to talk about love and things to them. My mom would be a little understanding but the rest…… not so much. I don’t want to come out of the closet cuz I’m not ready. But how should I approach my mom with how she feels about homosexuality and all.
i think you should tell her, she should love you for who you are no matter your sexuality
you should tell your mum. she should love you no matter what you identify as, but tell her in your own time, you don’t have to tell everyone at once you can tell your mum and the 6 or so years latter you can come out to the world if you want. or you can just give them hints like bring a girl home or have a photo of a cute girl as you phone background.
I’m in the same position as you are in right now. I’ve only come out as lesbian to my best friend. She wasn’t too acceptive. I’m trying to tell myself that i’m not lesbian, but really like this girl. Badly. I need help
Other people not being accepting doesn’t change who you are. It’s ok to drop someone if they can’t love you for you. Accepting yourself is the first step. You are most likely lesbian, and that’s great! Your feelings are valid. Don’t let the fear of others invalidating you change who you are.
I am pan and I am 12 and I haven’t talk to my parents because I am scared.
I said I’m attracted to both but the quiz still told me I’m a lesbian. Which is interesting.
I came out as lesbian on this test. I am bi-gender with a strong female side. I have been been attractive to lesbians all my life and have had my heart broken on a few occasions. I love being with lesbians and I am very happy with the outcome of this test.
I’m so confused between pansexual and omnisexual, I never loved anyone, just had crushes, but I don’t know if I’m totally blind to the genders. It’s confusing.
I took this quiz because I was confused about my sexuality/sexual orientation. I always thought I was straight, but lately I’ve has some sexual/romantic attractions to other girls (I’m a girl too). But sometimes, I feel like I don’t have any attraction to girls, other times I do. I currently identify as bisexual/pansexual, but I’m really not sure right now. Questioning might be a better term for now. Does anyone have any tips to “know for sure”/”find your actual sexuality”? Thanks.
I just took this quiz and am glad to know that it isn’t 100% correct. yes I for the last few years have been questioning my own sexuality but since I am male I am pretty sure that the test result of lesbian is not even close to correct
Yeah, I’m glad that it may not be 100% correct too, cause I got Pansexual and my parents wouldn’t accept me being pansexual. 😛
I always was questioning about my sexual orientation, but is it possible to be demi-bisexual?
yeah, of course! im a demi pansexual so i was in the same boat for a while
I got Pansexuality. But I think I’m not pansexual, because sex matters to me and I got preference. I think that I’m polysexual and the person I’ll go on a date with just must have some character. Also, it takes some time to fall in love 🙂
I find that I’m attracted to both genders so I identify as bisexual (in a cisgender female) but I also know I’m mainly attracted to masculine people (men and women, it doesn’t matter) I’m not as attracted to feminine people. I put this in the quiz and it came back gay/queer. Can I still identify as bisexual if I’m mainly attracted to masculine personalities/how someone dresses? Or should I just identify as queer? I don’t feel that queer is right though, I feel like for my own personal confidence I would want a more definitive label (not that queer isn’t definitive for other people, in my mind bisexual is just more clear to me) so I feel like bisexual would be better. But then some days I feel like I’m only attracted to more masculine females and I only think I’m attracted to guys because society has told me I have to be. As you can see I have much turmoil over this. Obviously I know ultimately the only person who can answer these questions is my self, but any help would be appreciated.
That is how the world is w/ people, just go w/ ur gut.
I have taken about 5 different tests like this and they all come out as Demisexual. Could i possibly be Demisexual?
Lesbian. It’s quite accurate👌 I knew that)
friendly reminder that bisexuality is inclusive of transgender people and nonbinary people!
It came out that I was pansexual but could I be bi-pansexual?
Hello. This test doesn’t keep bisexual history and the fact that pan is a subset of bisexual in mind. I’m bisexual, I don’t give a crap about gender.
I’m not sure how a female that identifies as such who is only attracted to men can get queer/gay or lesbian? please explain how that could possibly work?!?
I have been questioning my sexuality for a while now cause i thought i was straight then i thought i was bi then pan then gay now i think im pan cause i have started to have crushes on trans people cis gender people non binary people etc but for about a year or 2 i thought i was gay
I think that I’m lesbian but I am not sure I got pan on this test does that mean differently??
You are skoliosexual dude you like trans non- binary and gender fluid peeps welcome to the community bro
I’m really confused with my sexuality. I thought I was strait, but now that I’m thinking about it more, I think I might be pan. I am a girl interested in guys, but if I fling a girl that I really like for their personality, then I would go out with them. But at the same time, I’ve never been attracted to a girl yet, so I’m still contemplating
how should i tell my parents im bisexual , my mom wouldn’t like the though of me having a girlfriend
is there a sexuailty where you like all genders but prefer one
Omnisexual
That would be omnisexuality.
Bisexual
What you’re describing to us sounds like you identify as Bisexual
Definition: Bisexuals are sexually attracted to one or more genders.
I am bisexual I just don’t know how to come out ab it
Am I bisexual if I’m a woman who is attracted to men and nonbinary people? I haven’t really figured out if I like women yet :/
OMG! You are polysexual! I thought i was polly for a while. Search up the definition! I think it applies to you!
I dont know if i am lesbian or bisexual. I feel like im more into girls but i feel like i might be bi. Is there a sexuality that is more attracted to women but also sometimes not very often men? I also dont know what i am going to do to come out to my family.
Bisexual can often be described as having a preference between genders. Not all bisexuality is a 50/50 spilt. But at the end of the day, if that label doesn’t seem to fit, keep exploring yourself. There is no rush to find an exact label. Just be yourself 🙂
I’m really not sure how to identify. I think I’m pan, but everyone around me says I’m too young to know. This quiz gave me a result of Demi, but I really don’t know which one I am. I want to come out soon, but I don’t know what to come out as. My parents are also homophobic so that pressures me even more on what to come out as. I need help, please.
You can identify yourself however you please. I came out as omni to my mom and 2 brothers a few weeks ago and i’m only 11. I actually thought I was bi when I was about 10 1/2 and then I thought I was pan for a while after my 11th birthday and now I identify as omni!
Can you be Demisexual and Omnisexual?
Yes. Being a Demi I’m nose ya would mean beingnomni sexual but only having sexual feelings towards those you have an emotional connection with
Soo, I have a question…
I am questioning(Bi or pan, probably Bi) but the thing is, I think I am probably Bi, but I feel more attracted to males than females.
I am really picky in females, like I would probably choose the cutest/most sophisticated or the best option.
I am picky in boys but not too much. Am I really bisexual
Pls help…
Oh yeah! Thats called being bi with a male prefrence!
If you like all genders, but have a preference, you might be omni.
i always thought i was lesbian or bisexual but i got pansexual twice and i answered something different
Can you be demi And pan
I admit in my 20’s I used to think that I could be bisexual because I found myself liking both men and women and I was not at all bothered by the thought of possibly having a girlfriend. I felt that I could be accepting of having a relationship with anyone no mater what gender they were. Its only now where I’m having trouble trying to see where I fit because for awhile I felt and identified as asexual. I’ve only recently begun to explore myself a little more and now that I have been with another woman I find that I do like being with women as well. I have read through the A-Z list a few days ago and I’m still a little confused as to where I fit in amongst the different types of sexualities. In doing this quiz I got demi, I feel like it kind of fits but I think there might be a few other types thrown into
I’m a thirteen year old demigirl (demigender female) and I identify as Anisosexual (or, more commonly known as Homoflexible) and this quiz said I was lesbian which is pretty damn similar. I’m attracted to girls/women, with rare exceptions with men.
Any other homoflexibles here?
Also anyone who says Pansexual is Bisexual is wrong <3
I been confuse all my life because I like all genders and i didn’t know what it is.
when i figure it out i got scared because how can i say these to my family…
it hard because well they except me or not
I think im Just Bi I have a Gf and Im fucking gurl btw can i be transgender and bi
YES!!!! `Trans gender just means you transitioned for a girl to a boy or a boy to a girl. That does not efect if you like females and males.
How will i come out i thought but then im like oh shit i can say it by a note but i can also say the truth wether im not exepted or i am idc ima be a fucking GIRL AND DATE A FUCKING GIRL and my step mom and my real dad know my cousin knows and my aunts know btw they bi but my mom and step dad dont help me tell them and my lil bros they always say i have a bf but i dont even like boys, i like girls because a boy broke my heart and he also was very sexual and weired and he said he said he loved me even after we broke up but i need help coming out i also need advice.Thx.
IM A LESBAIN YAY! I STILL NEED HELP COMING OUT!
coming out is hard but pick a good time dont come out during a arguement or when you are feeling angry.talk to a parents friend r your friend who is apart of lgbtq+.be prepared and patient some parents feel like it is wrong and will respond negatively but they will finally except you.
Coming out is hard, but here’s my advice. First, don’t come out if you are feeling angry or during an argument, pick a time where everyone(including who ever you want to come out with) is relaxed. Second, if you know someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community then definitely talk to them about how they came out. Third, make sure you know that who ever you want to come out accepts the LGBTQ+ community, otherwise it will make it really hard. Fourth, if they do accept the LGBTQ+ community, then be prepared for them to stay silent about it and then they might respond negatively (with the “you’re too young to know, or “you haven’t dated boys, how do you know you don’t like them?”). Fifth, if they don’t accept the LGBTQ+ community, make sure you have a back up plan to where to go IF they kick you out, if they punish still make sure you have a back up plan. It’s important to contact someone you KNOW supports the LGBTQ+ community, if you know that your friend accepts the LGBTQ+ community or is a part of it then contact them, make sure that their parents are supportive as well. I really hoped this helped :D!!
thats great Lilly! If you still need help coming just ask about other peoples sexualities and if one is a lesbian and they can come out you can, also if your not gonna come out thats fine its call closted bye!
This is late, sorry. Come out on April 1st and if it goes badly play it off as a joke!
Can u be both bisexual and pansexual?
I go by they/she pronouns, I like all genders but I have dated more women than any other gender and I think I’m abrosexual…? I don’t know what exactly I am @-@
I got demisexual and I feel like I am, but how do I know for sure??
So if i was born with no gender but they just gave me a random gender what does that make me?
non-binary
Just want to clarify to anyone seeing this. Bisexual doesn’t mean only 2 genders. It can mean 2 or more. Of course some bisexuals can be attracted to two genders, but they aren’t limited to that number. Language changes and people are complicated.
I’ve been Lesbian for at least 1 or 3 weeks then I understood more of sexualities. Then I became Bisexual for a few months now, just a few days ago I started realizing that I was attracted to all genders. So I took this test and it revealed that I was pansexual🌸
Wanted to explain something:
If you are pansexual you are attracted to all gender WITHOUT ANY PREFERENCE and you are GENDER BLIND
if you are omnisexual you are attracted to all or most genders WITH POSSIBLE PREFERENCE and you ARE NOT GENDER BLIND
Hi, I’m Kimberly. I’m Trans (AMAB), my pronouns are; She/Her, I am romantically attracted to other women but I have no sexual attraction whatsoever to anyone regardless of their gender, sexuality, etc.. what does that make me? Does it make me an asexual lesbian, a Homoromantic Sexual Female, or a Lesbian!? I’m kind of confused about this please help me.
I got demisexual and I thought I was demiromantic so is it possible to be both btw i took this quiz today
yes of course
yes of course! A lot of people have double labels. Identify yourself as what feels right for YOU! Don’t ask if it is possible or if it exists, because it does! You exist right?? Then your sexuality does aswell
Is it possible for me to just identify as queer? I’m sure there might be other labels for me but queer feels right to me.
I’m a lesbian, I’m only into girls, I am a girl.
I am pansexual and i am only 12 years old
I dont think i can come out to my parents
i also dont think my parents will support me
hey im also 12 i have came out to my parents and they both fully support something i would suggest is telling them one of your friends doesnt have to be a real person came out as your sexuality and see how they react if they react positively then maybe wait a few days then come out to them if you are comftorable if they have a negative reaction i wouldnt suggest coming out unless you know you have a safe place to stay such as family or friends house, and this is only if you are comftorable
you are 12 and you already know your orientation. I am older but i only know i am cisgender(not hate)
Im pans but im only 10 what do i do?
just wait a bit before telling anyone expolre it on your own time and when your ready tell your parent figure if you think they’re safe
i am ONLY romantically attracted to males and ONLY sexually attracted to females… what does this make me
Bi
I think that would be heteroromantic and homosexual. I think, don’t come for me.
and what is your sex(if you have one)?
I sways thought I was pansexual but I to the test and I says I’m a lesbian how should I come out to my mom
hey im lesbian to! xD and just be yourself that’s my advice!
im Pansex
This quiz can’t be very accurate because it said I was gay even though I said I was male and I liked females- 👀
So…
i took this quiz, at first at like the end of 2020 i thought i was bi but then i said pans before today is wasnt so sure only like 96% sure i was pans and i got pans at the end of this so now im 100% sure ✨😌👍🏾
I got pan but I’m omni is there even omni as an option?/gen/lh/nm
I’m a lesbian!
soo I have a issue 3 years ago i came out as bi next i discoverd i was pan then it was omni leaning toward women then omni leaning toward men and masc peps then for a long time i thought i was androsexual-flux liking masc people regardless of biology and then just a couple days ago i changed again to where i dont want to do anything beyond kissing and affection and the quiz siad i was demisexual what does this mean?
You could be abrosexual! Which is where your sexual orientation changes, to put it simple.
I am abrosexual and you are having a similar problem I have. So you might be abrosexual, how I like to describe it is “genderfluid, but with my sexuality, or sexuality fluid.”
This says i’m demisexual even though I’ve never felt ANY sexual attraction. I even have a boyfriend! I’m a bit confused about this. I also have a lot of close friends but i’ve never felt anything for them. I like to believe i’m omni and ace, so omniromantic. Yet also my friends say I might be demi. What should I do?
I got pansexual and I’m more than 100% sure that I am straight
Same
I got demisexual, it feels sort of right but also not, i can tend to sort of fall inlove with people by how they write or how they look and almost only falling inlove with people if we have a emotional connection doesnt fit me.. im still kind of confused i feel like i can get interested in about every gender i also think i prefer non-binary people or people Who uses all pronouns as i find that more attractive?? I dunno, im very confused😵💫
Gay/Queer?
You don’t need to label yourself, just be you!x
Do labels really matter? You like what you like and that’s that. It doesn’t matter because we’re all the same but different at the same time if that makes sense. 👀👍
Is it possible to be both abrosexual, Poly, and demisexual at the same time, almost like a mix. Because I feel that I need to have a deep emotional connection to fall in love with them, but at the same time i feel like i love two or more people at once, but then again i dont feel like i can label my sexuality as anything in fear that im going to soon feel something else. Could you possibly help me understand? Im very confused.
I was struggling with my sexuality for so long and I took this test just to clarify that I was either bi or gay since I didn’t know how to identify because i just didn’t know, I went on google and found 3 really trusting tests and they all came back the same!! I am now proud to say I am a happy gay man with a fabulous partner!!
I always like different genders it’s always changing depending on how I feel and I also am not really into sex it grosses me out but I still want to have a relationship with someone I don’t really know what this is can you guys help me?
I think that’s called asexual saturnic (sorry if I misspelled) hope this helps
yes I’m non-binary agender demisexual omniromantic