Coming Out Trans

Transgender Definition: Relating to a person whose sense of personal identity and gender does not correspond with their birth sex.

Coming out transgender can be scary, confusing and sometimes lonely. But one thing is for sure, you’re never alone as you’re now a part of the Unite UK community. 

To help create a better understanding of what it means to be trans, below are the stories of trans members from around the world, sharing their experiences and journeys to becoming their authentic selves.

Nevan Solagna’s Coming Out Story

As an alien on the wrong planet. As an albatross – elegant and majestic in the skies, but unsuited when on a boat among the fishermen. This is how I’ve always felt growing up. I was a happy, curious child. I climbed trees as if they were old castles; I did...

Jillian Hart’s Coming Out Story

Growing up I always felt like I was different and didn’t fit in with the other kids. I was always so confused during elementary school when I would be called a boy or be grouped in with boys in school. I would go to sleep at night and pray that I would...

Samantha’s Coming Out Story

For many of us, coming to terms with being transgender is a lifelong journey. Although we have recollections of struggling with our identity while growing up, it was difficult to find the words or analogues in everyday life that would help to materialise...

Alisa Eglite’s Coming Out Story

As far as I can remember I had a very happy childhood, I was an innocent young child and didn't know anything about transgender people. As a kid, I used to do a lot of girly things. Like playing with Barbie dolls, wearing my mother’s heels, putting on her...

Eli Erlick’s Coming Out Story

Coming out will significantly change the lives of almost all transgender people. I opened up about my gender and sexuality when I was 8, in 2003, before I even learned the word “trans” or “queer.” It was a tiny town in rural Northern California. While I...

Drew Parker’s Coming Out Story

Coming out is not easy. Coming out also never fully ends. I should know, I’ve come out 3 times now! It took me a long time to realise my identity, to accept myself, and to tell those around me who I truly am. My freshman year of high school, 2009, I...

Ashton Stewart’s Coming Out Story

My names Ashton and I’m a 20-year old transgender male. I’ve been out for about 2 and a half years now, but before I came out as trans I was out as lesbian for a couple of years before I even knew what transgender was. After I found out what transgender was I wanted...

Jackson Williams’ Coming Out Story

My name is Jackson and I’m a twenty-one-year-old transgender male from Arkansas. My coming out story is a bit of a long one. Ever since I can remember, I felt different, like my body wasn’t my own. I ended up thinking that everyone had this state of mind so I just...

Ollie Brice’s Coming Out Story

I've felt I was a guy since the age of around 11 (that's when I found out what transgender was). I found out through Big Brother the year a transgender man won. I kept my feelings a secret for a good 2 years before I finally had to tell someone.   "I couldn't live...