Too many times my sexuality been mistaken for a “sexual endeavour” by people, cis heterosexual men in particular

My sexuality is not a topic of sexual discussion or domination. My sexuality is not to be sexualised by your fantasies and expectations or who you think I should be. Please stop telling me “I bet I can turn you straight” or “give me a chance you’ll see” or “you haven’t experienced real penetration” … this is not okay.

I hold my sexuality with so much grace, it is not the entirety of my multi faceted being, it is a part of who I am. It is not okay to constantly encounter a vast amount of uncomfortable situations such as the above. It is not okay that so many of us have constantly encountered a vast amount of uncomfortable situations such as the above
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Why are lesbian/queer women sexualised constantly?
Why are these advances and conversations deemed as “normal”?
Why are we being told we are too sensitive when our sexuality is constantly sexualised?

On behalf of myself and the lesbian/queer women @unite_uk1
#STOPSEXUALISINGQUEERWOMXN. PERIODT